Giving back is something most of us can agree is an important part of living a fulfilling life. From the simplest gestures of kindness to monumental acts of gratitude our shared humanity grows richer and more meaningful. That meaning is why I’m proudly partnering with Verizon for the third year to show thanks through their Verizon Military Mom program.
I can still remember stepping off the CatB flight and onto the tarmac in Rota, Spain. I was 19. It was hot and humid even though the sun was near setting.
This was the first time I’d been so far from home and there wasn’t exactly a welcoming party waiting as I walked into the nearly empty terminal. All I wanted to do was turn tail and head home to my mom. I’d never doubted my choice to join the Navy… until that moment. What I wouldn’t have given to be able to pull out a cell phone and call my mommy. But, it was the early 90’s and cell phones were still just a Star Trek fantasy.
Over the course of my time in the Navy letters and rare phone calls, care packages and VHS tapes from home got me through. Most days we were too busy to think too much about home, but home was always there thinking about us. What military moms do is truly a special thing. It ripples through the relationships of those we hold dear and those who serve beside us.
Flash forward a few decades and my eldest son would be the one to serve on foreign soil. He’d get there not by plane but onboard a ship as a member of a Marine Corps wing unit. I was a wreck even though – or maybe because I knew- what he’d be doing. Six months or more at sea and in other countries was almost more than this momma’s heart could take… but I’m a Military Mom. I am part of a long line of strong women who support those who serve. Plus I technology has my six.
While he was deployed our Verizon connection paired with our smartphones (I’ve bought the man-child no less than four phones since he joined the corps) kept us connected in a way my mother never had. I can’t imagine how hard it must have been for her!
We texted photos and pictures using the Whats App. He recorded videos for me and I’d get huge “dumps” of them when he’d get somewhere that had wifi. I’d even follow along using news alerts setup to see where his carrier group was. The highlight of his tour for me was “going” to Sydney, Australia with him. I got to see so much of the world because we were connected. I also got to see gorgeous views of Sydney harbor from the hotel room he got just so he could sleep in a normal bed on shore leave!
On that deployment, he also went through one of the hardest things those who serve face. He lost Marines from his unit. It was heart-wrenching as a mom to know he was going through this. As a veteran I felt it even deeper as those men were my shipmates too – we may have served in different eras but we are all part of the same family. To be able to be there for him, on a call, via text, in a video I could record and send him, was priceless.
This month Verizon is saluting and giving back to moms like me, moms who do so much more than I do, for our service to those who serve. They recently honored 15 military moms with $1,000 shopping sprees to get technology that will help keep them connected to their loved ones and their extended military families.
One truth I left my military service knowing was that not one single person, in any branch of the military, serves alone. Our loved ones, friends, families and our military moms serve along side us. A huge thank you goes out to every single mom out there that gives so much so that we may all have what we do. And to the team at Verizon, thank you for recognizing the service and strength of these women!